Planning the Perfect Private Event: Tips from Calissa's Experts

Planning a private event in the Hamptons means creating an experience that’s equal parts elegance, flavor, and effortless sophistication. Whether it’s a birthday, rehearsal dinner, engagement party, or corporate affair, Calissa in Water Mill is the ideal backdrop — and planning it doesn’t have to be stressful. Here’s how to make your next event seamless and spectacular.

Step 1: Choose the Perfect Setting

Calissa offers a range of event spaces that suit everything from intimate dinners to full-scale celebrations. You can opt for the chic private dining room, the breezy outdoor terrace, or even reserve the entire venue for large-scale occasions.

Each area has its own unique charm — and can be styled to match your event’s vibe, whether that’s coastal-bohemian, upscale cocktail party, or barefoot-luxury chic.

Step 2: Customize the Menu

Food is the heart of any Calissa event. The restaurant’s Aegean-inspired menu can be fully customized to suit your preferences. Create a family-style spread with shareable mezze, or opt for elegant plated service featuring grilled seafood, lamb chops, and vegetable-forward fare.

Calissa’s chefs are happy to accommodate dietary restrictions and special requests, making every guest feel considered.

Step 3: Select Your Wine & Cocktails

Calissa’s award-winning wine list is perfect for celebrations. Choose from Greek whites, Mediterranean reds, or large-format bottles for toasting. Want something unique? The team can help craft signature cocktails inspired by your event.

From bubbly rosé on arrival to Greek coffee-infused cocktails, the bar menu can be curated to elevate the mood.

Step 4: Add Personal Touches

Great events feel personal. Calissa’s team can assist with connecting you with vendors who excel at custom signage, floral arrangements, candlelit tablescapes, and even live entertainment or a DJ. Whether it’s a jazz trio or a violinist at sunset, your event will feel uniquely yours.

Need a vendor for a custom cake or incredible dessert spread? They’ve got that covered too.

Step 5: Lean on the Experts

One of the best parts about planning an event at Calissa? The experienced events team handles everything behind the scenes — from timeline coordination to vendor management. You’ll have one point of contact and peace of mind leading up to your big day.

Create Moments, Not Just Meals

At Calissa, private events are about more than great food (though there’s plenty of that). They’re about gathering people together, celebrating milestones, and making memories that feel effortless and elevated.

So whether you're planning something lavish or low-key, trust the experts at Calissa to bring it all to life.